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What are the forms of violence in relation to relationship violence theory and research?

Wind Goodfriend, PhD, MS, BA

April 1, 2024

Question

What are the forms of violence in relation to relationship violence theory and research?

Answer

Relationship violence encompasses different forms of violence that require different approaches and resources. Michael Johnson's Relationship Violence Theory identifies three primary forms:

Situational Couple Violence

  • Mutual, low-level violence used during conflicts by both partners
  • Tends to be relatively stable and not intended to control the partner
  • Any gender can be a perpetrator or victim

Intimate Terrorism

  • One-sided violence used by a perpetrator to control the victim/survivor
  • More severe physically and psychologically, inducing fear
  • Often involves sexual violence and techniques like the Power and Control Wheel (isolation, intimidation, manipulation, etc.)

Violent Resistance

  • Victim/survivor fights back against long-term intimate terrorism
  • Can lead to complex legal cases regarding self-defense or "crimes of passion"
  • Requires understanding of history of abuse and survivor's experience

As behavioral health professionals, we must identify clients' experiences based on these forms of violence in order to provide appropriate interventions. Situational couple violence may benefit from conflict resolution approaches, while intimate terrorism likely requires immediate safety planning and trauma-informed care. Attention to violent resistance helps us understand the survivor's motives and trauma. A nuanced, nonjudgmental approach is needed.

This Ask the Expert is an excerpt from the course, Relationship Violence and Research, presented by Wind Goodfriend, PhD, MS, BA.


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Wind Goodfriend, PhD, MS, BA

Wind Goodfriend, PhD, is a full professor of psychology at Buena Vista University in Storm Lake, Iowa. She earned her bachelor’s degree at Buena Vista University, then her Master’s and PhD in social psychology from Purdue University. Dr. Goodfriend has won the “Faculty of the Year” award at BVU several times, and two of her textbooks won the “Most Promising Book of the Year” award by the Textbook and Academic Authors Association. She has written several peer-reviewed articles about the psychology of relationship violence, as well as the recent book “Entrapment, Escape, and Elevation From Relationship Violence” (Cambridge University Press).


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