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What Defines Family Trauma and How Does it Impact a Child's Sense of Safety?

Kaytlyn Gillis, MSW, LCSW-BACS

October 1, 2025

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What defines family trauma and how does it impact a child's sense of safety?

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Family trauma is a specific form of trauma that involves the violation of the family system, which is typically considered a child's primary safe space. When this environment is marked by abuse, exploitation, neglect, dysfunction, or chaos, it undermines the child's sense of safety and trust in their caregivers. These traumatic experiences can occur in varying degrees and combinations, affecting the child's development and emotional well-being depending on the severity and nature of the family dynamics.

 

This Ask the Expert is an edited excerpt from the course, 'How Childhood Abuse Impacts Adult Relationships,' presented by Kaytlyn Gillis, MSW LCSW-BACS.


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Kaytlyn Gillis, MSW, LCSW-BACS

Kaytlyn "Kaytee" Gillis is a psychotherapist, author, and consultant with a passion for working with survivors of traumatic relationships. She is also a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Board Approved Clinical Supervisor.  She has extensive experience working with survivors of family trauma and dysfunction. Due to both her personal and professional experiences, Kaytee has focused her work on helping survivors grow in the aftermath of trauma. She has published two books on intimate partner abuse and a third, most recent book: Breaking the Cycle: The 6 Stages of Healing from Childhood Family Trauma. Through her published writing, as well as her presentations and trainings, Kaytee hopes to help others develop awareness and healing.


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